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Introduction
to "How To Attract Your Ideal Mate"
By
Linda Georgian
Introduction
Falling
in love is actually a powerful experience of feeling
the Universe move through you. The other person has
become a channel for you, a catalyst that triggers you
to open up to the love, beauty and compassion within.
SHAKTI
GAWAIN
From the moment I opened up to my friends in college
about my psychic gift, the questions I've been asked
the most have been about love and relationships. Everyone
wants to know: "When will I meet my soul mate?"
"Am I dating him now?" "Will I ever hear
from him/her again?" Or, "Where can I find
my ideal mate?" Each person is looking to find
their ideal mate to share in their journey. Without
love, people feel empty and lonely.
Love is the nutrition required by our souls to energize
us toward achieving our purpose on Earth. That's why
it feels so good. When we're in love, we feel as if
there's nothing we can't accomplish. Our bodies, minds,
and souls are healthier. It's no wonder that if you're
not in love, you want to be. And that's why we're driven
to take the risks necessary to find our ideal mate:
we go on blind dates, answer personal ads, read books,
attend classes, call psychics, and pray to find our
soul mate.
The process of finding your ideal mate is an opportunity
to learn about yourself and your purpose in life.
Finding your ideal mate is more than just universal
coincidence. It's true that most people meet their ideal
mates unexpectedly, but that meeting is a by-product
of the energy that you've been reflecting to the Universe
for a long, long time. The journey toward finding your
ideal mate begins with knowing, respecting, and loving
yourself first. My beloved mother, Marie Georgian Simmons,
told me when I was growing up that it was important
to develop myself as a person. This would then allow
me to attract another complete person into my life.
She said, "The most important earthly relationship
that you have is with yourself."
It's important to understand what you really want in
a relationship at any given point in your life, because
that's what you are going to attract. A friend of mine
was recently divorced, and she often said that she was
looking for someone to have fun with but not have a
committed, ongoing relationship with. The men who kept
appearing in her life were also interested in a noncommitted
relationship. Eventually she complained that none of
the men she was dating wanted more than a casual relationship.
I reminded her that she was fond of saying that she
wanted only fun, without commitment. That's the message
she was presenting to the Universe, and that's what
she was getting. At some point she changed her mind
about what she wanted, but she didn't change her request
to the Universe. As we move through different phases
of our life, the definition of an ideal mate will also
change to meet our changing needs.
During certain times of your life you may enjoy the
lessons you can learn from dating many different people.
You may also believe that there's one ideal mate for
you, and you will put your time and energy into creating
and maintaining that relationship. Sometimes you may
think you've sent out one request and you wonder why
you keep receiving something else. This is when you
must take an inventory of your true beliefs about relationships
and your ideal mate.
The Universe is always listening to our requests. A
couple of years ago a colleague of mine had been dating
a man for about a year, but he had not yet expressed
his feelings about their relationship, or whether he
even wanted to explore the possibilities of it continuing
in the future. Driving down the highway one afternoon,
in exasperation, she said out loud, "All right,
I'm tired of this. I want to know what he wants!"
Much to her surprise -- although she shouldn't have
been shocked, since she had directly asked the Universe
for information -- her boyfriend, over dinner that evening,
and without any hint from her, not only brought up the
subject but volunteered quite emotionally that he cared
deeply for her and wanted the relationship to last.
While some people might term this a coincidence, many
of us know that when we ask for information or make
our feelings known to what we loosely refer to as the
Universe, or God, or whatever we choose to call the
creative force we are intertwined with, we will get
an answer, and often quite quickly. Somebody or something
"out there" is always listening -- and is
indeed here to assist you. As many spiritual leaders
have stated, the Universe conspires to fulfill all our
dreams.
As the following story shows, you can send verbal or
nonverbal messages to the Universe that you wish had
not been sent. These, too, demonstrate the enormous
power we have to manifest anything.
When
one of my clients began dating a man she found herself
in love with a few years ago, he was afraid because
of the strong feelings he had for her. It had been
many years since he had given up on the idea that
he might find his ideal mate, and in the meantime
be had married someone who he knew wasn't ideal for
him. After that marriage faltered and he met my client,
he realized that she was everything he had been looking
for and that they were the "perfect fit."
My client felt that way, too.
So, what was the problem?
The
man, after expressing his deep feelings, seemed to
stall the relationship. Knowing that he was afraid,
my client was very patient, understanding, and encouraging.
One evening, upon the advice of a friend, she drew
pictures of everything she wanted at that point in
her life. In addition to a few drawings related to
her career, she drew on the page a picture of the
man and herself holding bands. Around them she drew
a shining sun, a palm tree, a beach -- a beautiful
romantic setting. On her left hand she drew an engagement
ring and wedding band. To make sure that their identities
couldn't possibly be misunderstood, she even put their
initials as monograms on the T-shirts she had drawn
on their figures.
For a couple of days the picture sat on the counter
in her kitchen, but feeling a bit embarrassed and
not wanting anyone else to see the picture (for fear
they might think her superstitious, childish, or even
crazy), she put the picture on the top shelf in her
bedroom closet next to some sweaters.
She had not told the man about this picture. In fact,
the only one who knew about it was the friend who
suggested she draw it in the first place.
Within forty-eight hours of her placing the picture
on the shelf, the man she had been dating told her
that he was afraid of his feelings and needed more
time to think about their situation.
"I'm going to have to put you on a shelf for
a little while," he told her.
When she heard those words she froze, in shock that
he had chosen the phrase on the shelf. When she got
home that night she immediately took the picture off
the shelf in the closet and brought it back out into
the bedroom.
"I stood there with the picture in my hand,"
she told me. "I had no idea where to put it next.
I could not believe how much power this picture actually
turned out to have."
She moved the picture from place to place around her
house for the next couple of weeks, making sure it
never sat on anything that even remotely resembled
a shelf. She then said a little prayer, affirming
her love for this man, and asked the Universe to bring
them together again. Finally, she threw the picture
away, releasing the power of the picture to the Universe.
Within a few months, he had taken her "off the
shelf," and their relationship resumed.
Another example happened to a client of mine fifteen
years ago, while he sat in a restaurant with a friend
having ice cream.
"I know what I'm looking for," he told his
friend, "but I just haven't found her yet."
"Me,
too," his friend replied.
"Why don't we try something just for fun?"
my client suggested. "Each of us can write down
every single quality and detail we can think of that
describes the woman each of us is looking for, and
then let's read out loud what's on our list."
They
each grabbed a napkin and wrote down their list. They
left no stone unturned. In fact, they both felt a
bit silly because their lists included the time of
year they thought their ideal mate's birthday would
be, what her hands would look like, and even the tiniest
details about her family, interests, and life's work.
They
read their lists aloud to each other and my client
said to his friend, "Well, if I run into your
girl, I'll send her to you; and if you run into mine,
send her to me."
The
very next afternoon, my client met a woman through
his work. They be began dating a week later, and be
soon discovered she matched everything on the ice
cream napkin list.
They were married two and a half years later.
This book highlights all of the principles I've learned
and taught people throughout my career as a psychic
and spiritual advisor. I also show examples of real
relationships people have had, either learning about
the types of relationship they want to have (their own
individual spiritual lessons) or actually meeting and
beginning their journeys with their soul mates.
In Part One we focus on the Law of Love. You must first
love yourself so you can give love to others. Relationships
with ideal mates are based on many types of love, depending
on what you need and want at that time in your life.
We'll discuss why you must become a whole person and
live in a state of love to create the energy to attract
your ideal mate.
In Part Two we explore the Law of Preparation and Attraction.
Preparing yourself by learning what you want and need
in a relationship is necessary in order to attract what
you really want in a mate and in a relationship. Often
we put energy into creating one thing even though we
really want something else. It's like ordering cheese
pizza and, when it arrives, expecting there to be pepperoni
on it. You must make certain that what you want and
what you request are the same thing.
In Part Three we see that once you've found your ideal
mate, it's important to practice the Law of Maintenance.
You must nurture your relationship to provide mutual
growth that enhances its spiritual, emotional, mental,
and physical aspects. I'll help you identify ways to
develop a relationship from the moment you meet a possible
life mate until you're both ready to make that commitment.
Even relationships with ideal mates require effort and
care to ensure that the romance continues to bloom.
In Part Four we focus on the Law of Letting Go. Some
relationships are part of our growing process as spiritual
beings but aren't meant to last a lifetime. Just because
a relationship didn't last forever, though, doesn't
mean that the other person wasn't your ideal mate for
that particular moment in time. This chapter will also
reveal how to lovingly let go of past relationships
so you can move forward and begin new ones.
In each chapter you'll meet clients to whom I've taught
the principles of attracting their ideal mate and others
who've shared their stories about their relationships
with me. You'll see the principles of these universal
laws in action through these real life stories about
people who've loved, grown wiser, and have experienced
being in a relationship with an ideal mate. Your heart
and soul will be inspired as you begin to believe it
can happen to you.
Remember, your will is very powerful. As you literally
create your life, think about this: In this world
there are only two tragedies. One is not getting what
one wants, and the other is getting it. OSCAR WILDE
 Linda
is a nationally known psychic, lecturer, and author
of four books published by Simon & Schuster available
at bookstores nationwide or through Amazon.com. She
is the former co-host of the “Psychic Friends Network”
with Dionne Warwick. Linda is available at 954-567-9725
or 1-888-296-7139 toll free. www.lindageorgian.com
Email:
linda@lindageorgian.com
(psychic readings
by telephone or in-person only)
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